christian lifestyle, The Church

What to look for in a church home

Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. (Hebrews 10:24-25, NLT)

A while ago I posted on why I left the church and I just want to take the time to clarify some things. Now just because I’ve stopped associating with typical church people, doesn’t mean that I’ve isolated myself from the TRUE church or body of believers. I’m not crazy.

One who has isolated himself seeks his own desires;
he rejects all sound judgment. (Proverbs 18:1, NET)

As a matter of fact, my husband and I have found a deliverance ministry that we pray to become a part of. We understand the importance of fellowshipping with like minded believers. I am always praying to be connected with the saints. Especially with my sisters, that’s one of the reasons why I created this site♥

But the truth of the matter is that your every day (on every corner!) churches have been conformed to this world and are full of idols and vain worship. So I’m going to share what my husband and I have been looking for in a congregation to determine whether or not they’re apart of the remnant or just some “christian” organization. Hopefully, this will also help some of you out.

Now, the first thing that we look for is Sound doctrine.

If any man teach otherwise, and consent not to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to the doctrine which is according to godliness; He is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings, Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself. (1 Timothy 6:3-5)

Many are merely hearers and not doers of the Word so like that house build upon the sand, many churches aren’t built upon what Jesus teaches.  They claim to be “Bible based” but they’re really just founded on man’s opinions and interpretations of it. So with that being said, find a place that preaches holiness, and that doesn’t have any taboo topics like demons or repentance.

Preach the word of God. Be prepared, whether the time is favorable or not. Patiently correct, rebuke, and encourage your people with good teaching. For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. They will reject the truth and chase after myths. (2 Timothy 4:2-4, NLT)

The power of God

This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. (2 Timothy 3:1-5)

Nowadays everyone is claiming to be a Christian but no one is overcoming sin or physically healing others.  All we do is TALK but real believers posses real power and authority from God. Let them keep them motivational speeches.

For the kingdom of God is not in word, but in power (1 Corinthians 4:20)

Order

This could be a post in itself but all I’m going to say is that when looking for a place to fellowship we need to make sure that the church is being ran properly. For instance, sin should be addressed and error should be rebuked. They should be following the examples of the apostles and early churches not evolving with the culture.

Love and Humility

 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. (John 13:34-35)

One thing that will be different about a congregation of people who are truly following Jesus is their humility and love for other people.  We are so used to reserved, mean church cliques that we forgot that the greatest among us should be the servants.

 But Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Matthew 20:25-28, NLT)

True followers of Jesus Christ humble themselves by lying down their lives to serve others. And true leaders aren’t too proud to (first speak!) repent publicly or to receive deliverance. Now of course they should be above reproach, but no one has no more to learn or to grow.

People of prayer and repentance

We should be gathering to pray and to edify each other. Not to be listening to the choir sing secular “gospel” music all day. Find a place where the people are dedicated to prayer.  And I mean real prayer, not emotional (sensual), self seeking and eloquent vain prayer.

But anyway,  these things are just a start. More importantly we all have to make sure that we are being led by God.

Your sister, Brandi

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Me a couple of years ago at the park spending some time alone with God. I think it’s worth mentioning that when you’re first coming separate it can be lonely. Your mind is being renewed and you’re being stripped away from all you’ve ever known. However, the process is very necessary and in due time you’ll be linking up with other believers as you consider the things mentioned above. Also, as you’re searching for a church home, know that God is faithful to put people in your path when you need them the most 🙂 Trust me, you’re never truly alone.